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Sometimes It’s for the Best That We Miss an Opportunity

My mother had a chance to draw for Walt Disney when she was very young.

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Sometimes it’s for the best that we miss an opportunity. My mother had a chance to draw for Walt Disney when she was very young. When he died, his death hurt her so bad. Now that I am older, I can see God’s hidden reasons why my mother missed that opportunity. It was not meant to be.

I have heard wonderful things about Walt Disney as a child. I have never heard anything bad about the man Walt Elias Disney until years after high school, and my mother is resting in peace. On the internet, I have seen a documentary on a show titled “Secret Lives”. It told how Walt Disney treated the women that worked for him. Marie Beardsley (Disney Artist) said that in the big multi- million dollar studio in Burbank, everything was segregated and things got to big and impersonal. She thinks that’s where the trouble started. It was said in the documentary that women did the slave work. The women were treated terribly. The animation department was the men’s department. The women were just in the inking and painting department. They were kept in a room and didn’t get up. The women had tea break and back to work. The supervisors would stand behind them and watch how well they were inking. The women were timed on how fast they were painting. The supervisors did that to see if they were worth keeping. Some people got fired. Walt Disney was a controlling man and people called him Uncle Walt. Nobody crossed him. If they did, they got fired.

It was said that Walt Disney was prejudice. He did not like Jews and especially New York ones. If a person was too dark, they had to go.

When I heard about the bad side of Walt Disney, I could not believe my ears. When I read about Walt Disney, it’s always good things. I told myself, “What! No! Not the man that made Walt Disney! Not the man who made Mickey Mouse!”

My mother always said that you don’t know what is going on behind closed doors. As she got older, she could feel something about Disney that wasn’t quite right. My mother told me that she had lots of opportunities in life. She told me if they had happen, me and my brother might not would have been born. My mother said that she probably wouldn’t have gotten married. She might would have been a totally different person. I think all of the things my mother said is true. Her outcome in life might would have been different. Now, that she is resting in peace, I am beginning to see what she meant when she said that sometimes things happen for the best. It may be a blessing in disguise.

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Comments (7)
#1 by Ruby Hawk, Oct 10, 2008
Your mother was right, you never know what goes on behind closed doors and some opportunities are best missed. Even so I'm sure most of think about the road not taken.
#2 by Salve, Oct 10, 2008
I believe in that too. God will not give you something that you won't be able to handle.He knows what is best for you.
#3 by Gail Nobles, Oct 11, 2008
Hi Ruby and Salve! Thanks for your comments. Sometimes it\'s hard to make up your mind when an opportunity comes your way. We do think about the road not taken, and God will not give you something that you won\'t be able to handle. He has led and guided me a lot in life what to do. I thank him.
#4 by Brian Daniel Stankich, Oct 17, 2008
Gail, good thoughts. We do have to trust in God to help us make the right decisions, and allow his sovereign hand to guide us. Great way to take something you saw in life and draw a principle from it!
#5 by Gail Nobles, Oct 17, 2008
Hi Brian! Glad to hear from you. Thank you for reading my article and for your comments. I'm glad that you know God. I'm always glad to hear from readers like you.
#6 by  Liane Schmidt, Nov 8, 2008
You know, I really needed this article right now - it's funny, I have been offered many amazing things - but when you find out the background reason behind these things - you see the picture clearer. When you stay true to your heart and good character, you will always make the right choices. It goes the same for why I think some people are meant to be in your life friendship/relationship-wise. I have a picture of the man I want in my life forever, and he treats me with kindness, respect, like a lady etc. So even if a guy promises me the world, if he doesn't treat me like I'm precious all the success and riches in the world can never replace my dreams.

Thank you for this wonderful article!!

Blessings.

Sincerely,

-Liane Schmidt.
#7 by  Gail Nobles, Nov 9, 2008
Hi, Liane! I'm glad you found the right guy in your life. I am happy for you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me.
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