Years ago, Gloria Steinem said that a black man would be
president before a woman.
At the time, most gave it the usual sickly smirk, because
taking women seriously is a problem.
It is a problem to men who don't want to deal with the
equal who just might have a little extra, a problem to
women, who see every other woman as a threat.
Hilary Clinton is one of those women whom either you cast as
a role model, or avoid.
She is married to a man who can't keep his pants on. Unlike
John Kennedy, he didn't attract Hollywood Royalty, he
attracted the pump attendant.
Where it took many years after his death for John Kennedy's
adultery to become front page, Bill Clinton's affair was
played out on the world stage.
Where Jacqueline Kennedy was largely spared the
embarrassment, Hilary had to grin and bear it.
Because Hilary was not just the wife of..but a political
person, she stuck with Bill. If she had no political dreams,
she, as the majority of women, would have left him.
But she stayed.
When the campaign began, she and her handlers, might have
thought Bill a great asset, he wasn't.
The world was pretty much disgusted with his sexual
behaviour, and though, as a President, many considered him
fairly good, seeing the back of him, hopefully for a Gore
was the desire from Timbuktu to Tikrit.
Seeing Hilary with that forced smile and her pretend marriage
was quite unpleasant. One could virtually see the tension,
the discomfiture, as if trying to give a speech when the
smell of raw sewage permeates.
As many women whose marriage has collapsed, she threw herself
into work, because if she didn't have the campaign, what
would she do with all those hours between sleeps?
A divorce would have been wiser. Had she done so a few
years ago, she would have lost the "odor of raw sewage"
and created a life.
A person with "a life", i.e. John Edwards, could see the
inevitable, and drop out. Hilary could not. She had
sacrificed her soul to stay with Bill, believing she needed
him for her campaign. Her delay in concession, her ungracious
behaviour is the psychological result of this.
The idea of her as Vice President to Obama, is no longer
palatable.
She does not present herself as a "team" player, or as one
who could work with or beneath Obama, but as someone who
believes in an entitlement to power.
She has sacrificed everything to run for President and
can not believe it was all for nothing.
I dread to think of women like her in power. They will use the position to exact revenge for every perceived offense that they have ever faced.
Women complain about men willing to wage war, but I believe that a woman is even more dangerous. A good example is how women can act irritable, snap back, insult others, display rage and intolerance but then use the 'I have PMS' excuse to escape being accountable.